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How human brain works..

  ‘Message send is not always message received.’ -         Virginia Satir           Have you ever experienced this? What you wanted to say is something different and what next person understood was out of your mind? How many times in a day do you think you communicate this way?           Well, let’s pause counting and focus here for few minutes, because we might get the answer for this question or rather to the question of what makes communication influential.           First we must understand that communication is not only words but it comprises of words, tone of voice and body language, every aspect of this communication carrying its own weightage.           When we combine these three aspects, we can say that we are communicating. Let me ask you the simple ...

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Has it ever happened to you that you are picking mangoes from a mango tree and your child or colleague is helping you? After picking a lot of mangoes, your child or colleague suddenly sees a mango at the very top of the tree and he shows you that the mango is yet to be picked. But the funny thing is that you don't see the mango in the crowd of leaves. He tries to show it in different ways, he gives different clues, he makes a lot of gestures but still you don't see that mango. You also try hard to see the mango but you can't see it. After a long time and after a lot of effort, all of a sudden your eyes look in such a way that mango get visible and your eyes suddenly glow. Your child or colleague is also happy to see that it is visible to you what he or she is trying to show you. This is exactly what happens in our lives. Even after trying so hard for a long time in life, you don't see what successful people are trying to convey. But suddenly one day you realize somethin...